Thecheshirecats, 49

black lace kitten looking for a black leather teddy bear i am a perky goth (emo makes me a little queasy) but that doesn't mean i'm always happy. i am a geek and love sci-fi/ fantasy.

i am a mom but that isn't all i am. my ex-husband is a daddy to his kids but we are done as anything but people who can talk to eachother.

i'm looking for someone who is smart, funny, fun, open-minded, and affectionate who will make some time for me and respect all i have to offer.

i work with special need kids and have a lot of patience but need someone who will not rely on it.

i like to do a lot of things but i care more about the company i'm with than the activity.

a boingo fan would be a huge plus but just not having to explain who they are would help.

i love movies and disneyland. i want to go to tokyo some day. i would actually like to learn japanese so i could watch anime in the original dub without having to read and be able to order at my favorite sushi restaurants in japanese... not to mention for to go to tokyo.

i don't really care about how much you make, but i'd like you to be reasonably stable (financially and otherwise) and while i don't mind paying when i have the cash, i want my guy to be able to do the same.

i do not want a casual friendship or open relationship.

anything else? ask i guess.