Shadeling, 45
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Abilene, TX, USA
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Goth Lite
I'm a BBW into the Goth culture for a lot of reasons. I don't like pretention, and I don't like arrogance. I do love long hair, though, and find the Victorian-style Goth wardrobe to be absolutely dead sexy on long-haired dark Lords. I'm something of a dominant personality that can be persuaded to occasionally bend. I'm up for friends and more, long-distance or otherwise, and travel is fun for me. I'm probably not what you'd call an overt Goth, and I can't be for a lot of reasons, nor am I Christian. That said, I'm highly-educated and have a vocab as big as my body. I listen to a lot of different music, and just because I don't mention your favorite band doesn't mean I don't like them - it just means I need to be properly introduced. No drugs (marijuana is a drug) other than alcohol. I drink socially, don't smoke, etc. Hit me up if you want to chat - just look elsewhere if you're after a booty-call or one-nighter, thanks.
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'09"
Weight
330 lbs
Body Type
overweight, large
Movies
comedy, sci-fi, drama, action, horror
Orientation
straight, bisexual
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
post-Graduate
Profession
Education / Academic Research
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
I currently live
family and friends visit often, with pets, with parents
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Chocoholic, French, Japanese, Chinese, Comfort, Italian, Indian, Carnivore, Omnivore
Personality
introvert, nerd, geek, lover, loner, fun loving, professional, liberal, pirate, intellectual, romantic, flirt
Individuality
psychic, pirate at heart
I'm looking for
relationship, mr. right, soulmate, conversation, roommate, dating, romance, the yin to my yang, miss right, penpal
My Sign
i was born in february, aquarius : jan. 20-feb. 18
Pets
Dogs
Gender
Female
Music
Heavy Metal, Metal, Pop, Rock, Hard Rock, Dance, Celtic
Hair Style
long hair, straight
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, internet, larp, movies, music, naturism, nudism, photography, reading, swimming, television, travel, video games, weather, working out, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fat and proud, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
bisexual, straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red
Their Ethnicity
Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other
Relationship
divorced, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
daily, no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker, only when I drink, socially
Do they drink?
daily, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
better in small groups, comic relief, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Raw, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, extrovert, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, lover, nerd, pirate, playa hater, professional, romantic
Individuality
goatee, nudist, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, tattoos
Religious Views
Buddhist, Hindu, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, dating, miss right, penpal, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
aquarius : jan. 20–feb. 18, aries : march 21–april 19, cancer : june 21–july 22, capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, gemini : may 21-june 20, i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in april, i was born in august, i was born in december, i was born in february, i was born in january, i was born in july, i was born in june, i was born in march, i was born in may, i was born in november, i was born in october, i was born in september, leo : july 23–aug. 22, libra : sept. 23–oct. 22, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, sagittarius : nov. 22–dec. 21, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Pets
Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Iguana, Monkey, Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rat, Rats, Rock, Sehlat, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Targ, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles, Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Ferret, Ferrets
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