please help me Im upset and I need someone nice to talk to

[mcrieroaa]

there was this guy that I met on this site and we have been texting each other for 19 months but now he is been nasty to me and has deleted me as a friend on facebook and is never going to talk to me again I'am so upset because Im never going to find anyone else like him.

[blackwidowrose]

To be perfectly honest with you, yes you will meet others like him...everyone has the potential of being a complete waste of flesh, and everyone has the potential of changing by way of revealing their true colors. There are pricks everywhere you go...people who somehow get high on hurting others. All I can advise at this time is to tread more carefully in unfamiliar territory, and don't allow yourself to believe that the object of your affection is always going to be a bed of roses; congenial, kind and open. For many, growing close to another is not only difficult, but frightening. Perhaps he got scared of your feelings, perhaps he is taking longer to share them and wants his space. None can speak for him, and these are merely assumptions on my part. However long you know someone, you will never truly KNOW them. Don't blame yourself; that will solve nothing...look back over the passed 19 months, see if there is anything you could have done to change the outcome; if you don't see how you could have, then the problem was never yours to begin with. That is really all I have to say about it though I wish you luck in your future conquests.

[mcrieroaa]

`it was because I e'mailed this girl just to tell her I liked her hair he accused me of been nasty to her

[autumnflames]

.What'd you say and what'd she say. Can't help w/out details, but I'd be more than happy to do so.

[darkflame666]

mcrieroaa wrote: there was this guy that I met on this site and we have been texting each other for 19 months but now he is been nasty to me and has deleted me as a friend on facebook and is never going to talk to me again I'am so upset because Im never going to find anyone else like him.



hey there!!!
i would'nt say dat it's ur fault for wat happened....but i guess lukin back at da past n repentin for wat happened is gonna get u nowhere...i knw it's damn easy for me to give u advice cuz it's u who's goin thru all dis "s---"....but lemme tell u dat ive been thru similar situations...attachment often hampers progress...but c'mon we're humans n we often tend to get attached to ppl...it's pretty natural...n i bet he feels da same sumwat sumwhere in sum dark corner of his heart...i wud say instead of takin a step back into da past u shud step over wat happened n carry on wid ur lyfe...it mite be hard at first but as dey say "time is da best healer"....n considerin dat ive been thru such situations i guess u shud give it a try...try findin sum1 who cud shelter u n give u support at dis point of tyme...u need company...sum1 who understands u n cud give u da warmth n da feelin dat ur still luved for wat u r...take care "peace"\m/

[mcrieroaa]

`he started been nasty to me because of this girl

[sweetmeatx]

`No man (or woman for that count) is worth tying yourself in knots over!
Accept this bloke isn't worth wasting your time even thinking about.
Take a deep breath now block his number on your phone, remove his number from all your address books.
Now you should have a clean slate, find something positive in your life concerntrate on that for a bit whilst you rebuild your confidence.
Hold your head high, believe in yourself.
Big hug. x

[darrenquent1]

`---- it all and ----ing no regrets i hit the lights on these dark sets..to quote from st. anger