Xilda, 37

Vision of Destruction scam Along with Me • Be independent, not clingy. • Speak in a straightforward and brief manner. • I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts. • Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable. • Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity. • If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place. • don't come on like a bulldozer. • Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy. Good things about me: • standing back and viewing life objectively • coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects • my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure • not being caught up in material possessions and status • being calm in a crisis Hard things about being me: • being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world • feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all • being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be • watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally.