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Now that i have your attention, read my summary please:
I can be shy until I open up. I am a bit of a geek: video games, books, seclusion. I can be honest to a fault when the mood strikes otherwise I try to be polite
I hate trendiness, drama, and arrogance. I do understand that almost all human beings are subject to moments of the latter at least every once in a while. But if these are your defining qualities I might hate you
I am a very independent person.I live on my own and have since I was legally aloud to do so
I don't believe in one person paying for everything. Its got to be equal or else I feel like a prostitute. Not that I have anything against that particular job, it s just that its not my profession
Alone time is needed. If I were to "settle down" it would not be a conventional "settling". I would like to live on my own still and only see someone once or twice a week.That is my ideal. Of course it might be that i have'nt found the right person.Maybe i'll change my mind about how i spend my time if such a person exists
I like reading a lot. Someone who can sit in a room and read with me is a valuable find
I dislike @ssh*les AND nice guys. By @ssh*les i mean people who have no empathy at all. They have no clue others have feelings. Nice guys tend to stick to the generalized gender roles and paranoia. That's not good for me either.

I need someone with a labido.And they need to be a bit perverted too.If i can't look you in the eye and ask you to pee on me, its just not going to work.

And blunt honesty without the delusion that you're always right will make me wet myself a little. If i cant communicate with you without the drama, you're out the door.

I will not text and/or call a man to find out what he is doing every second of the day. I want the same courtesy extended to me. You know the whole trust thing!

I am also not opposed to finding a bi couple (two males) who need a girl in their lives.