Looking for someone unique inside as well as outside... I am 29, I have a child (7 year old boy who lives with me and is Autistic) and have been married unsuccessfully twice. I was a US Marine for 4 years active duty and 4 years inactive. I am a full time student, parent and run my own small internet based business (put an "inc" on the end of my user name and go searching... LOL).
I am told that I intimidate men because I am a strong, independent and opinionated woman. So if you scare easy, keep on looking. I love to laugh, spend time with friends and family, listen to music, go dancing, learn new things and experience life. You only get one life, may as well enjoy it while you can!
Heretic13, 45
currently offline
San Diego, CA, USA
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Looking for someone unique inside as well as outside...
About Me
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
working out, writing, yoga, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cycling, dancing, gardening, internet, killing zombies, mime, movies, music, naturism, nudism, photography, reading, running, shopping, sports, surfing, swimming, target practice, television, travel, video games, weather, wine tasting
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, large, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, bald, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Caucasian, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other
Relationship
divorced, off the market, just here for friends, separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, Less than $25,000, that's private
Do they smoke?
daily, no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, socially
Do they drink?
no, only blood, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, there is a party every night, with kids, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican, socialist
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Raw, Soul Food, Spicy, Sushi, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, burner (burning man participant), conservative, extrovert, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, lover, nerd, pirate, professional, punk, romantic, type a
Individuality
beard, goatee, mime, nudist, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, stache, tattoos, vampire
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
aquarius : jan. 20–feb. 18, aries : march 21–april 19, cancer : june 21–july 22, capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, gemini : may 21-june 20, i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in april, i was born in august, i was born in december, i was born in february, i was born in january, i was born in july, i was born in june, i was born in march, i was born in may, i was born in november, i was born in october, i was born in september, leo : july 23–aug. 22, libra : sept. 23–oct. 22, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, sagittarius : nov. 22–dec. 21, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Military Service
air force, army, coast guard, marines, national guard, navy, reserves, veteran
Gender
Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Celtic, Chamber, Dance, Death Metal, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, House, Indie, Industrial, Metal, Punk, R and B, Rap, Rock, Screamo, Techno, Trance
Hair Style
afro, flattop, layered, long hair, mohawk, ponytail, shag, shaved head, short hair, spiky, straight, buzz cut, straightened, caesar, cornrows, crew cut, curly, dreadlocks, emo, faux-hawk
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