It's so hard to get into the perfect relationship, why?

[millionairewoma]

I fall in love with a guy out of my county. Should I go ahead?

I have really strong feelings for a business man who lives in toronto, canada.(I'm in texas, united states)

We met each other via millionairecupid.com. But I haven't seen him for a few months now, when I am with him I feel there is a chemistry between us and I know Im not imagining it, the last time I saw him we where never alone there was always family around but we always sat together and talked.

I believe that there is only ever one person for everyone and I think that he is mine when I go on dates with other men I don't get the same feelings have no interest in being there and think about him the whole time. I feel if I start a relationship with any other man I will be selling myself short.

I feel like getting on a plane going over there telling him how I feel and seeing what happens what do you all think I should do.

I know there is a chance that he may not return my feelings but I think life and love are both gambles and I should just do it or stay just friends with him emailling him and talking on the phone never saying what I really want to say.

So please go and tell him or not what do you think??

[danteus]

`As a hopeless romantic myself I say go for it. If you want a reason think of this. If you don't do it you will be plauged the rest of your life with the what if's.

[thelateatrhur]

`One reply. Better late then never, I say

My two cents:
Regard people as books in a library, but with the added "sting" that the book must want to be read by you and you'll figure out why this is such a problem...

Also, what you consider as "success" is also a factor: it could be that you only want to read a certain book for the rest of your life, or you could consider "success", if you can get a new book every two weeks, on average. And have an enjoyable "read" most of the time.

Consider as well how we go about selecting our "books" (here it comes): "by the cover", or will you read snippets from the book, possibly spoiling the plot.

And finally: do we really know what we are looking for in a good "book": in general, yes! But if we go and look in more detail, a lot of subliminal criteria will determine our choice, and will even steer us towards the wrong section.

But once you have conquered all these obstacles, you can be sure of one thing: it is very probable that the book is no longer available

[ravenboy (deleted)]

`There is no PERFECT relationship.../smiles kindly...

[hourglass]

nothing is ever perfect in this world. same goes with relationship's. much as i hate to say it a relationship long distance or not is like making candy in a candy factory. takes time, team work and there will be times you make mistakes. But in the end its all worth it.