Shadowjojo, 35

I am a long dark brown haired man, stocky, and kind of short... quite bummish, though I am quite handsome, really, I dress in comfortable clothing, and I am into alot of pretty nerdy stuff, I'm looking for ...too be honest I'm looking for a girlfriend who'll love me. and someone I can love too, who can tolerate how strange I can be (up at 4 in the morning shouting at a cat about his plot to kill me strange)
I love good dark comedy and can laugh at nearly anything, I am very openminded, but also very gentlemanly, I'll treat a girl right and I want a girl who wants to be a partner and a lover, I don't smoke and don't like being around ciggarrette smoke, I don't drink, but I'll try a glass of wine or so, I am essentially a pacifist but am not afraid of defending myself or others, I have an arrogant streak because of my high intellect but, I'm working on that (it mostly shows itself when I crack jokes and laugh like a villainess in anime or a japanese soap opera) I don't really care what a girl looks like as it is the heart, mind and soul that is of value to me( YES SOULS!!! DELICIOUS SOULS!!...see it's crazy stuff like that...)